Why I Like The High Five

The first reason; it's fun.  Pretty simple, I like doing it. 

The second reason; because when people attempt to high five and bungle it you have to laugh.  Who does not think to themselves upon seeing two people completely miss each other's hands "Wow, they are so un-cool. I am so embarrassed for them."

The third reason; you know when you give someone a high five something good has just happened.  Perhaps someone has just won the Super Bowl or the World Series.  Someone could have just landed some girl's phone number that he does not have a chance in heck of going on a date with.  Remember when you found out that OJ Simpson was going to actually serve time and be held accountable for something he had done?  How many high fives did you give that day?

My wife and I shared a high five yesterday.  If you are married with children it is the best kind of high five a couple can share.  It is the high-five that occurs when you get in the car after you drop your two kids, both under the age of two off, at their Aunt's house for the day so that their parents can have an entire day to themselves.

What did we do on this glorious day.  We went to lunch, the doctor, ran some errands and took a glorious, precious nap.  Yeah!  Thanks April.

You might ask yourself if this was worthy of a high five.  You bet your ass it was.  We might not have been going to Disney World afterwards but taking a nap was just as good and a heckuva lot cheaper.

Certain things occur that are not worthy of a high five.  Getting a bill in the mail does not qualify.  Toothaches are not worthy.  No one has ever high-fived anyone after hitting a deer.  The point  is the high five is the international symbol for "it's going to be a good day."

Now for a little history of the high five.  There are many different ideas for the origin of this form of expression. 

It seems that the first time it was used and exposed to the world at large was in 1977 at a Dodgers game.  Dusty Baker hit a home run and as he crossed the plate on-deck hitter Glenn Burke raised his hand and Dusty slapped it.

Also in 2002, students at the University of Virginia (their claim, not mine) originated the first National High Five Day.  You do not believe me, check it out here, National High Five Day.

There is one more reason I like the high five.  It requires two people.  You cannot perform a high five by yourself.  Well you can try but you might look silly doing it.

Since it does require two people it means that you have someone with you that you can share whatever joy it is that you have just experienced.  That alone, sometimes, is worth it.